The words, or I should say the command of Jesus to "Leave everything and follow Me" have struck me as extreme at various times in my life. The cost of following Jesus is not measured in money but in the sacrifices we make with our comfort, relationships, and cherished aspirations. Whether you are a curious seeker, a long-term believer, or someone seeking to grasp the essence of authentic Christianity, this journey will delve into four transformative aspects of discipleship: (1) the core of genuine biblical discipleship, (2) Jesus's uncompromising teachings on weighing the cost, (3) the contemporary challenges we confront today, and (4) the unexpected joy discovered in surrender. Each narrative and insight shared here draws from both ancient teachings and present-day trials.

     Let me speak frankly – I am penning this not as an individual who has everything figured out, but as a fellow sojourner who is still discovering what it truly signifies to follow Jesus in a society that pulls us in countless directions. Through personal anecdotes, biblical perspectives, and practical guidance, we will delve into the layers of comfortable Christianity to unveil the genuine intentions behind Jesus's words: "Take up your cross and follow me." What I have come to realize might astonish you – the greatest sacrifices often lead to the most unforeseen treasures.

1. The Core of Genuine Biblical Discipleship

     I can recall the first time I was confronted with the thought-provoking question, “If practicing Christianity suddenly became illegal, would there be sufficient evidence to convict you?” This inquiry delves deeply into the essence of genuine discipleship – it's not merely about religious rituals or conforming to cultural norms of Christianity, but rather about a profound transformation brought about by wholeheartedly following Jesus.

     The words of Jesus in Luke 14:33 strike at the heart of discipleship: So likewise, whosoever he be of you that forsaketh not all that he hath, he cannot be My disciple. This is not merely a suggestion or a desirable attribute; it is an essential prerequisite In contrast to the superficial "following" often seen on social media today, following Jesus demands our complete dedication, not just during Sunday services or on our digital profiles.

     Consider the early disciples – Peter, Andrew, James, and John. In Matthew 4:18-22, we learn that they promptly left behind their fishing nets, boats, and even their father to follow Jesus. They did not bargain or ask for a trial period. Their immediate, total, and sacrificial response epitomizes genuine discipleship. These were not impoverished fishermen with nothing to lose; they were prosperous businessmen abandoning their family businesses and security.

     But how does this notion apply to our modern lives filled with mortgages, career aspirations, and familial obligations? Authentic discipleship means allowing Jesus to reign over every facet of our existence. It involves reflecting on “What would Jesus want me to do?” when making business decisions, forming relationships, and engaging in day-to-day activities. As Jesus expressed in Matthew 16:24-25, Then said Jesus unto His disciples, If any man will come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me. For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it.

     This is not about earning God's love – that is already guaranteed through Christ’s sacrifice. Rather, it is about reciprocating that love with wholehearted surrender. Similar to a marriage where love leads to commitment and selflessness, our love for Christ should naturally result in a lifestyle of devotedly following Him.

2. Jesus's uncompromising teachings on weighing the cost 

     The wealthy young man left in sadness, burdened by the weight of Jesus's words. Mark 10:17-22 captures the moment when his eagerness for eternal life clashed with the reality of its price. Jesus, gazing at him with love, highlighted the one thing he was lacking - complete surrender of what he prized most.

     This story isn't just a historical event; it's a reflection of our own struggles with surrender. Jesus wasn't setting a universal decree against riches but was revealing what holds utmost importance in our hearts. For the wealthy young man, it was his wealth. For us, it could be our standing, relationships, career goals, or comfort zones. Jesus was clear about the sacrifices of following Him. In Luke 14:26-27, He says, If any man come to Me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be My disciple. And whosoever doth not bear his cross, and come after Me, cannot be My disciple. These teachings may not be found in welcoming brochures at churches, but they are key to understanding genuine discipleship.

     The term "hate" here doesn't signify actual hatred but rather loving less in comparison. Jesus is emphasizing priorities. Jesus asks us to love Him above all else, even when it conflicts with family expectations, societal norms, or personal aspirations.

     Consider it akin to a wedding - by saying "I do" to Jesus, we are saying "I don't" to other potential pursuits. Following Jesus involves giving Him our ultimate loyalty, even when it clashes with familial obligations, cultural standards, or personal desires. This isn't about neglecting responsibilities but about consciously reorganizing our affections and devotions.

     The parable in Luke 14:28-30 about the tower builder serves as a perfect example: For which of you, intending to build a tower, sitteth not down first, and counteth the cost, whether he have sufficient to finish it? . . . . Jesus wants us to be aware of what commitment to Him entails. He is not looking for impulsive followers or uncommitted followers. He wants us to recognize that following Him may require us to relinquish everything, but as many devoted disciples have realized throughout history, He is infinitely more valuable than anything we might sacrifice.

3. The contemporary challenges we confront today

     I remember hearing stories of individuals in the workplace who face struggles about navigating their Christian faith and maintaining integrity and risking their careers by meeting certain work expectations. This dilemma reflects the modern obstacles faced by many believers when their beliefs clash with a world that deems Christian principles old-fashioned or narrow-minded.

     Jesus cautioned believers in John 15:19 that while the world may embrace those who conform to its ways, those who follow Him will face rejection. This truth is especially poignant in today's interconnected society, where subtle influences can gradually weaken our spiritual resolve.

     The realm of social media presents its own challenges, where expressing support for traditional marriage, for example, can lead to losing followers, speaking opportunities, and even friendships. The pressure to conform to changing societal norms can be intense. Romans 12:2 urges believers not to conform to worldly standards, but to allow God to renew their minds, even if it means defying cultural norms.

     Navigating professional settings can be particularly tough for Christians, who often encounter ethical dilemmas, office politics, and company policies that may conflict with their values. The example of Daniel refusing to compromise his faith in Babylon (Daniel 1:8) serves as a relevant reminder of the importance of standing firm in one's convictions, even when facing potential consequences.

4. The unexpected joy discovered in surrender

     My friend expressed a newfound sense of freedom after losing everything, including his business, due to his Christian beliefs. His experience reflects the paradoxical teaching of Jesus in Mark 8:35, For whosoever will save his life shall lose it; but whosoever shall lose his life for My sake and the gospel's, the same shall save it.

     This paradox challenges societal norms that prioritize material success and personal gain. While the world encourages us to strive for accumulation and achievement, Jesus teaches that true fulfillment may require letting go of worldly possessions. Similar to the concept of pruning, shedding what seems valuable can lead to a more abundant life.

     The Apostle Paul exemplified this principle in his own life, declaring in Philippians 3:7-8 that he considered all his earthly accomplishments as loss compared to the worth of knowing Christ. By willingly surrendering everything for the sake of his faith, Paul realized that he had gained the ultimate reward.

     This concept of losing to gain remains relevant today, as individuals who prioritize integrity, generosity, and service over material success demonstrate a deeper connection to Christ and experience spiritual richness through their sacrifices.

Practical Steps to Follow Jesus Today

     "How do I put this into action?" is the common question I receive after discussing discipleship. While the principles remain constant, the implementation must be practical. Allow me to share the insights I've gained from years of navigating, stumbling, and progressing in my journey with Jesus.

     Start with Matthew 6:33: But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and His righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you. This verse serves as our practical guide. Here is how it unfolds:

     Initially, establish essential daily routines. For me, it's the 'sacred hour' – 5:30-6:30 AM, before inundation by emails and notifications. This period dedicated to prayer and Bible study isn't about ticking off tasks but about nurturing a relationship. Note the example of Jesus in Mark 1:35, And in the morning, rising up a great while before day, He went out, and departed into a solitary place, and there prayed.

     Secondly, foster genuine Christian community. When I relocated to a new city, my main focus was on joining a small group before scouting for a gym or preferred restaurant. Hebrews 10:24-25 underscores the significance of assembling together and providing mutual encouragement. In today's digital era, face-to-face interactions become even more crucial.

     Lastly, strive for intentional obedience in minor matters. Jesus stated in Luke 16:10, He that is faithful in that which is least is faithful also in much: and he that is unjust in the least is unjust also in much. This could involve being transparent about minor expenditures at work, communicating truth with kindness in casual dialogues, or opting to assist others when no one is watching.

     Establish support structures for accountability. Share your expedition with trustworthy believers who can offer both encouragement and constructive critique. Proverbs 27:17 emphasizes that as iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another. This is not about inducing guilt but about fostering relationships that provide encouragement for growth. Remember, these practical measures are not about trying to earn favor with God but about positioning ourselves to encounter more of His transformative presence in our daily existence.

Conclusion

     Although following Jesus may initially seem costly, the journey ultimately uncovers a surprising reality: what may seem like a sacrifice actually leads to incredible fulfillment. The sacrifices that Jesus requires – such as our comfort, our plans, and our self-centered ambitions – are overshadowed by the peace, purpose, and eternal perspective that we gain. The crucial question is not whether we can manage to follow Jesus, but rather if we can afford not to. As discussed earlier, genuine discipleship requires complete commitment, yet it promises even greater rewards in return. The invitation remains open: are you prepared to assess the price and embrace the thrilling experience of following Jesus wholeheartedly?